Saturday, December 5, 2009

Good evening . Things are rather down tempo today . Very laid back and relaxed . No hype , no stress and free from problems . Entertaining the same dose of medicine everyday can send you straight down . Six feet to be exact . The time is now 5.34 and i shall be making my way to johan's by 6 . Its that time of the year again where his family has their traditional christmas preparations . Seeming that his father is half french , we all celebrate christmas together . Celebrating christmas does not make us outcasts btw. Sorry i had to add that on haha . To me , its just like new years . I know where my allegiance lies and im sure you wont need further confirmation . I dont really have much to write about at this point of time . Maybe tonight or tommorow . We'll see .

Friday, December 4, 2009

Good morning Malaysia . The skies seem rather clear today . On the plus side , its not too hot . Managed to get 8 hours of sleep last night . Something which rarely takes place . Prior to blogging this morning , i found this on the net . No , dont get me wrong . Im no sexist . I just thought maybe this would be good motivation to my fellow friends . Or soon to be--foes , hahahaha . Anyway , have a go at it . Save the war for later .

Girls always whine that there a million things guys do that are totally repulsive. But surprise! Surprise! Guys get turned-off too, and what's worse, most girls don't know have the slightest idea of what turns off guys. Men go for a certain type of girl as well. So to save yourself from more stress, here are the top five types of girls that are major turn offs for guys. Girls, avoid them at all cost.

  • The 24/7. Sometimes, when we're attracted to someone, we just can't help but be totally available and easy-to-get. We want to please him and make him like us as well so we become very vulnerable - forgetting that he should earn and work his way up to us. So hold on to your reins, sweetie. Play a little hard to get and let him know you got high value.
  • The whiners. If you plan to complain the whole night, better stay at home. Sure, the food service sucks, the weather is all screwed and the music is lame but you don't have to rant and ramble on them all night. To make it a perfect date, it's not all about these stuff - it's how you handle yourself in every situation. So give the guy a break and let him go bowling with his buddies instead.
  • The trash-talkers. Can't keep a rumor to yourself? Do you think you need to let this guy know who slept with whom last night? Do you think it's your job to update him who has a bad reputation and who are the best girls to date (well, yourself included). Better get someone to take you home, my dear. Chances are, your guy is already headed for that pretty brunette who knows how to shut up and mind her own business.
  • The giggly bunch. Giggling is cute but getting all chummy and giggling every five seconds in the presence of a guy is not only annoying - it's a definite turn-off. Gather your wits girl. Better learn the proper ways on how to flirt. Let him know you can take care of yourself and that he has to work his way up to you.
  • The damsels. Fishing for some compliments? You don't need to tell him your deepest darkest insecurities and worries - what do you expect? He'll give you a big hug, comfort you the entire night and whisper in your ear that you're one beautiful amazing girl and any guy would be crazy not to hook-up with you? That sounds pretty sweet but that doesn't cut it. Guys are more attracted to confident, independent girls when he does give you a big hug, comfort you the entire night and compliment you all the way, chances are he just wants to get laid.

I guess its back to basics for me . Pretty much had to stop blogging for a bit as i didnt have adequate time . Okay , so where shall we begin ? The holidays are pretty much on the way . Been keeping myself busy with the band , my health and not to forget friends and family . I must say , 2009 has been rather challenging . Ties are cut , emotions are wrecked , problems are never settled . Nothing is ever on the contrary . Things have been difficult no doubt . Tho , the mind has its own wonders . I never really have followed my heart . Can you tell me straight to the face tht im heartless ? or would you maybe swallow your words and try to solve the math after making tht decision ? That , remains unanswered . Im not looking for sympathy and such . I just need to express myself , and tell myself that it will all be fine . Ive never turned my back on faith . Faith is the motivation ive learned to preach . All that has been said and done are only words without actions . The outcome ? unpredictable . Can peace be restored ? can words ever justify my questions ? leaving all of that to the almighty is best . With such assurance , i know-ill find peace and comfort , within the little that i have .